tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23894396848663857762024-02-06T22:47:03.580-06:00ALONG THE DAOWe are becoming...Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.comBlogger171125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-65422187982915706542018-07-16T11:45:00.000-05:002018-07-16T11:45:13.624-05:00why tall women love short men<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-logitem" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #777777; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; margin: 6px 9px 7px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
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hi</div>
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hi there. please share what's on your mind</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:25:42.550Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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well yeah uhmm do you think I'm a little fucked up that sometimes I'm not 100% ok with my bf's physical appearance? like I really do love him but I still have problems accepting that some aspects of him will never be what I want in a partner</div>
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i'm curious how his appearance makes you feel</div>
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particularly when you're otu with friends</div>
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well he's a little on the shorter side and I have always preferred someone on the taller side</div>
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and sometimes it makes me a little insecure when I'm out with him</div>
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<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
insecure in what way? as in you don't feel he could protect you or insecure like other people are judging you</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:28:34.996Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-strangermsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #92918f; font-family: Quicksand, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 100; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-partner" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">Venter</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
I guess people judging us mostly?</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:29:02.365Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
I know that you shouldn't care what other people think</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:29:18.651Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
but I can't help it sometimes</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:29:24.459Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-youmsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
first, I think it's perfectly okay to feel what you feel. i would say it would be abnormal not to have those feelings</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:29:57.022Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
i hear that you are feeling conflicted</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:30:10.821Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
because you obviously care about him</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:30:16.638Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
otherwise you wouldn't be with him</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:30:22.097Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-strangermsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #92918f; font-family: Quicksand, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 100; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-partner" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">Venter</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
oh wow okay because I've been keeping those thoughts to myself for a really long time and I always felt like crap for having them in the first place</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:31:06.314Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-youmsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
maybe i misjudged. do you love him?</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:31:47.406Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-strangermsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #92918f; font-family: Quicksand, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 100; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-partner" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">Venter</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
definitely</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:32:07.885Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-youmsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
great. then i can focus on asking you questions</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:32:22.996Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
about the issue you brought up</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:32:33.206Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
let's do a game of switching shoes</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:32:47.772Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
pretend you are a guy dating an overweight girl</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:33:01.469Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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society says that thin women are desirable and heavy women are not (generally speaking)</div>
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-time" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; clear: right; color: #949ea2; float: right; font-size: 11px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:33:26.231Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgtext" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 60px 0px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
if you saw a thin guy with an overweight girl, what would you think of them?</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:34:18.353Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-logitem" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #777777; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; margin: 6px 9px 7px 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-strangermsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #92918f; font-family: Quicksand, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 100; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-partner" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">Venter</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
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well not the be fucked up but my initial thought would be that's kind of odd but I mean love is love if they're happy together then there shouldn't be a problem</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:35:43.476Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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such a great answer!</div>
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here's my thought</div>
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let's say if you saw the two of them, your initial thought might honestly be "oh, that's interesting" or simply "oh"...then when you think a little about it</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:37:07.678Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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you feel happy for them if they're happy</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:37:17.730Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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my point is sometimes we think other people are judging us</div>
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when actually they could be celebrating our love...or just as likely, could care less about you because they have their own life to worry about</div>
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does that make sense?</div>
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Yeah! It actually really does. Thank you for that <span class="m_-8334256276591433034emotion_show m_-8334256276591433034gmail-0" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><img src="https://blahtherapy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: middle;" title="smile" /></span></div>
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But do you think it would be smart to bring it up with him tho? Like do you think he deserves the right to know I've been feeling like this?</div>
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or is it just better to keep it to myself to prevent him having any more insecurities and possibly hurting him in the process?</div>
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another great question. first, i imagine that is a challening conversation to bring up for you.</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:40:11.838Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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i'm curious if he's everbrought this topic up with you</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:40:31.347Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-strangermsg" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-radius: 4px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #797979; font-family: OpenSans, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 25px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 9px 10px;">
<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #92918f; font-family: Quicksand, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #469ac2; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 100; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-partner" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">Venter</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
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I think he tried to once but I didn't really want to expand on the topic because I know he's also insecure about his height so I didn't want to lower his self esteem even more</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:42:15.428Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
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i think that's a good sign</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:44:29.903Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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that he brought it up first</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:44:36.092Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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i can understand why you didn't feel comfortable continuing the conversation because you feared it would "make him feel more insecure"</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:45:04.596Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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in my opinion, the truth is you can't "make anyone" feel anything</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:45:20.446Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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yes, you can help or hurt his self esteem</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:45:49.986Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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but ultimately, it's up to your boyfriend to choose for himself how he feels about his height</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:46:04.793Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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i share this idea because i want you to know that is not your responsibility</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:46:33.896Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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sometimes when someone shares something personal, we feel responsible to make them feel better</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:46:50.765Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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and sometimes we don't want to talk about it because that feeling of responsibility can be too much</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:47:09.872Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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I'm curious, when he initially brought up the topic with you, how did it make you feel?</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:47:32.058Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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Initially, I felt really bad because it's a feature that he can't really change.</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:48:45.099Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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<span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msgsource" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3987bb; font-family: Quicksand, Arial; font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; padding: 5px 7px 5px 5px;"><span class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-nick_name" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-radius: 6px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b6b6b; font-family: QuicksandBook, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"></span> <span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #a7a7a7; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 3px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">You</span></span><div class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-msg_full" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
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very astute observation. you're right, other than breaking his legs and installing inspector gadget extensions, it's something you both have to accept.</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:49:45.498Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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now when you say "you felt bad"</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:49:53.991Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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what exactly do you mean</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:49:59.547Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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what exactly did you say or not say?</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:50:22.497Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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Like maybe I also felt a little guilty because I've been carrying those same thoughts since we basically started dating but I chose not to say anything and just keep it to myself</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:51:30.936Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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great stuff. thank you for sharing. personally, i think if he feels the same way about you as you do about him. meaning you love him... i think he would really appreciate your honesty</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:52:37.858Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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of course, there's a difference between being honest and being a brute</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:52:50.788Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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the main message you want to convey to him is that you love him</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:53:04.272Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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you asked, "should i bring this up with him"</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:53:19.108Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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at some point, absolutely, in my opinion</div>
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a quality relationship is based on honesty and openness</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:53:56.982Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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you can have a decent relationship keeping this to yourself</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:54:14.513Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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but if you really see a future with him, this conversation needs to happen</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:54:29.416Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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woooooow I wish I can talk to you about all my problems haha you really bring some eye opening insights</div>
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<abbr class="m_-8334256276591433034gmail-timeago" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 119, 119); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-width: 0px 0px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="2018-07-15T14:55:03.159Z">about 2 hours</abbr></div>
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thank you so much</div>
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thank you for the feedback. it makes me feel appreciated</div>
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i'd like to leave with some advice on how you could initiate this conversation</div>
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1) try your best not to worry about his feelings. instead focus on sharing what you're feeling. he's a grown man and will figure out what he's feelings</div>
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2) we have a tendency to worry about how other people will respond. you can't control how he will react. you can only control the words you say and more importantly the intention in which you say it. in this case your intention is...i have something i need to get off my chest and I love you.</div>
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3) yes, bring up your feelings about how his height makes you feel. also share your understanding that ultimately, his height is not something that is a deal breaker for you and share with him at least 3 things that you love about him</div>
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we all need to feel affirmed and worthy of love. again, that's his responsibility, he needs to be able to stand on his own two feet, but you can definitely help. even if you stumble on some words, i think this conversation can bring you two closer. because he will learn that he can trust you</div>
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sorry i need to run, best wishes, friend. i appreciate your honest sharing and my hope is he will too</div>
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thank you so so so much for your help</div>
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I hope you have the best day</div>
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take care</div>
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Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-53862247372292544152017-08-31T08:14:00.000-05:002018-01-14T17:17:25.327-06:00the river travel car homeless stories<span class="_3oh- _58nk"><span class="_3oh- _58nk">"The Day I Stopped Giving a Cr#p"</span></span><br />
<span class="_3oh- _58nk"><span class="_3oh- _58nk">When you don't have any reasons to stay, it doesn't take a whole lot to leave.</span> I got kicked out of college when I was 21 for not showing up to classes. Usually schools could care less about attendance as long as they're receiving tuition but I was at UT on scholarship and they decided this free ride was over and showed me the door. </span><br />
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<span class="_3oh- _58nk">My girlfriend broke up with me the next day because I wasn't paying rent and kept eating all her food. I was a shameless freeloader, correction, former freeloader, as my supply lines were abruptly cut off. With $200 to my name I hit the road. I didn't know where but I had to go - somewhere, anywhere but here. Looking back, I was unhappy because I didn't want to accept the responsibilities of what I thought adulthood meant: getting a job. Some people escape through drinking and drugs. I was always too scared to get into all that mess but I had this incredible internal itch, one I had no idea how to resolve. The closest thing to crawling out of my own skin was to pack up and leave.<br /><br /> I thought, "maybe if I started over things might be different", and gave myself til the end of the day to decide where to go.<br /><br /> The day passed. I had lunch. I walked about, going back in forth weighing pro's and con's. Unequivocally, it was the lowest I'd ever felt. What would my parents think? All my brothers and sisters were either excelling in school or running successful businesses and here I was living out of my car sneaking into the YMCA to take showers. I did not feel like a Nguyener.<br /> <br /> One of my beliefs now is "clarity comes from action". Not because life necessarily gets easier but you learn more about what you need and what you can do without. I was paralyzed from making a decision because I was so scared of the unknown and yet what I did know was Austin was not working for me. </span><span class="_3oh- _58nk"><span class="_3oh- _58nk">I remember having taken a road trip to
Houston with my friend, Thuan, on Bastrop 71 and how it crossed the
Colorado more than 5 times. There was something about rivers I connected
to. Perhaps because I am a Pisces. I was very much like water - fluid, perhaps too much and I yearned
for guidance. The River whispered an invitation and I happily accepted.</span> Instead of crawling out of my skin, I crawled along the Colorado with the moonlight guiding me southbound. I felt a sense of calm and connectedness to my life, my Self, and to my environment like I had not in a long time. (to be continued)<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />The river is a great teacher.<br /><br />“You’re not good enough.” “You’ll never amount to anything; have you proven yourself before?” “You’re wasting your time, you’ll never make it.” “You’re an idiot for thinking you can.”<br /><br />et, even while all of this profound negativity is being channeled toward the river, it continues to flow.<br /><br />The river moves no matter what the atmosphere. If it’s raining, lightning or grey – it moves. The river channels all of its mind, body and spirit into the direction of its dreams.<br /><br />When the river goes through a break up with its beloved – it doesn’t stop moving. It flows. It’s relentless. It’s wise.<br /><br />Since the river is always flowing and moving – do you think it’s never in a bad mood? Wrong again – of course it gets in bad moods. It just moves in spite of them. It moves. It moves. It moves. The river also doesn’t take pleasure and often feels pain when others project their negative viewpoint on it. When this occurs, however, the trademark sound of babbling, rushing water continues, unimpeded.<br /><br />It’s hard to believe, but the river worries sometimes too, just like you and me. Except you would never know by looking at it, as it never allows itself to become stagnant; it’s a rushing river my friend! It opts to run on the wisdom of its inner being and not be handicapped by some toxic emotion that would have it flow differently.<br /><br />Also – the river blames no one. It takes full responsibility for its shortcomings in the past. It realized long ago that meditating on what it believes made it fail to live up to its potential has only led to its turning into musty canal water where slimy, green algae grows.<br /><br /> “All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you . . . ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer.” [emphasis mine]<br /><br />One thing you can be certain of about the river is that it never dwells on the past. Ever. Do you hear the sound of the water rushing over the rocks? Tell me… when you hear the babbling water, when are you hearing it; in the past or the future? Neither. It’s only possible to hear this precious sound in the now.<br /><br />Since the river channels all of its mind, body and spirit into the present, it has no room to dwell on the past. The river understands by letting go of the past entirely, allows for its potential in the present to reach its absolute zenith. If the river was to dwell on the past, it would lack the energy to flow and create its beautiful music.<br /><br /><br />It should be mentioned that I was sitting by the river a few weeks ago and sparked a chat with it. I said, “Tell me, River, how do you do it?”<br /><br />It responded:<br /><br /> “No matter what obstacle comes my way, be it mental, be it physical, I’m going to direct my flow in the direction I want it to go.”</span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-53300311969815686402017-08-29T18:16:00.001-05:002017-08-29T18:16:34.735-05:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My family immigrated to the United States from Vietnam. I had no choice in the matter. My parents sought a better life for their kids, so I said goodbye to my grandmother, aunts, and uncles. I don't think I was aware of what was going on. Perhaps as aware as an apple is being plucked from a tree. There was a mad dash the final days. We had a ton of paperwork to sort out, vaccinations to undergo, and somehow even managed to take one last picture with my mother's side of the family who would stay behind. Lots of tears shed as my grandmother would kiss and hold us so tight as if it would be the last time she'd see us. <br /><br />
After 10 long years separated from his family, my father would reunite with his with a wife and 5 kids in tow. While my paternal grandparents by and large were nice, our family experienced a great deal of hardship including trying to figure a more permanent residence, assimilating to a new culture, navigating a new life etc.<br /><br />Sometimes, for the sake of a more dramatic story, I claim our family made the perilous voyage by boat but alas, we came to the U.S. by plane. This was made possible by Catholic Charities and some unsung heroes from Caritas. I was four years old then. Many South Vietnamese refugees were not so lucky and were forced to do whatever was necessary to escape the fighting between the U.S. and the Communist North which included evacuations by boat http://nyti.ms/2vq6Qrc<br /><br />
My family would have been like those families making the voyage by boat if Caritas and hadn't taken us in. Our grandparents understood that we needed help, and so they helped us.We lived with them for about 6 months, and during that time my dad worked tirelessly to ensure we would have a place of our own.<br />That was our story, in brief. We were in transition at the time, it forced us in a short amount of time to find our footing. <br /><br />We're not that different from the scores of Houston families now - all responding to a situation outside of their control, mothers and fathers doing their best to secure their children, and good people helping each other.<br /><br />Today, I share my story in support and with deep empathy for the many homeless families due to Harvey. It hits me personally because my family been where they are.<br /><br />And to you Houston families, it is natural to think that the rain and hard times will never end. Please trust me: things will get better and there are wonderful people who care and are fighting for you everyday. <br />Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-31964240857181745072015-06-02T11:06:00.002-05:002015-06-02T11:06:32.218-05:00Daily Gratitudeand now, a daily gratitude. Today Dao is grateful for his roommate, Benson, because:<br />
- he keeps the music down<br />
-<a class="osjviojcv" href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2389439684866385776&pli=1#32642736" title="Click to Continue > by WildWestCoupon"> pays<img src="https://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png" /></a> his bills on time<br />
- gives me a chance to role-play as a brother<br />
- he is predictable<br />
-<a class="osjviojcv" href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2389439684866385776&pli=1#21876205" title="Click to Continue > by WildWestCoupon"> helps<img src="https://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png" /></a> with the utilities<br />
- generously shares foodDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-70733904697585357072012-12-31T18:34:00.002-06:002012-12-31T18:34:36.260-06:00This Past Month .::December::.- Chose to self-pitying for a few days. Bich helped me to resurface. Funny how intimacy can be had with an old friend. Like the connection was never lost.<br />
+ Played "name that tune" with Thuan. Nice how we've always had a close connection. <br />
+ Set some goals, three in the morning. That was fun.<br />
+ Met Monica's new boyfriend. He seems really nice. Of course I felt a little jealousy but mostly I am happy and wish them both the best. Relationships are challenging enough. No need to send negative energy.<br />
+ Made conversation with an attractive woman on the bus. That was awkward and fun. Next time I plan to record these cold calls. Hilarious. <br />
+ was thinking about my lonely days spent in Vermont, Boston, and NYC. Interesting time in my life.<br />
+ thought about my time working at Chili's Bar and Grill and how I used to play snowball fighting with the cooks. I generally love the cooks. Hard working guys/gals. <br />
+ had a dream about my dad but noticed that there was a lack of fear. I stood strong, affirmed. Not sure if that's a sign of progress but making a mental note.<br />
+ A strange night. Went to the jam but the location had changed so I spent the evening doing handstands and juggling, dropped off a book for Ashlyn, and then randomly met a pair of high school girls who asked me if I could spare some change. I said no at first but thought twice to offer to buy them something to eat at Whataburger. They turned out to be good kids. Glad I did that. Reminded me of the times I took homeless people out for a meal.<br />
+ When you're in a happy state every thought is funny. "Biked" into Shay and had a great 2 hour massage with David. <br />
+ Went to my first sweat lodge. Boy it was intense. I learned that your energy effects others and vice versa. I make the sound "xai!" when I need inner strength and i get into beast mode. Then I realize i can also remain in beast mode by simply taking on a clam state and breathing deeply, that I can breathe in the fire and survive it, even welcome it. It's important to renew, to close our eyes and open our hearts. To connect to a higher consciousness. To take one day at a time. To realize that someday I shall be free. I get to choose when that day comes. To decide to face the fire and not to turn my back to it takes courage and self belief. I find strength in knowing that I am needed, that I can serve, that I can be of comfort. It takes my focus away from my self pity. The knowledge that we are all experiencing the same challenge is helpful. That we can get through things together. I went into the sweat with curiosity and discovered that the lesson I would learn was one of faith. You see, I saw a bottle when the sun was still out, but when the sun set, I needed to have faith that the bottle was still there even though I could no longer "see" it. I met some guys I felt a kinship with, Daniel and Nick, and an assortment of interesting people. I was touched by Bright Sky's mourning and to have shared the experience with Erin. There was a feminine energy in receiving the heat and I tried my best to remain open to it. <br />
+ Got to experience Erin being vulnerable in my presence. That was a gift.<br />
+ Had fun reconnecting with Kai. Maybe boys and girls can be friends. sort of.<br />
+ Work and play. Repeat. Life is good.<br />
+ I'm glad I was able to have a relationship with Monica. I made my share of mistakes but overall it was a good experience. also to have helped save the Friday Acro Jam <br />
+ I love Christmas music.<br />
+ Read the Prophet. Wisdom I really needed. by Kilal Ghilran or something. Lebonese poet.<br />
+ <span class="gc-message-sms-from"></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text">cried today on the bus.
trying my best. sometimes i feel like i'll never get there. there
being self love. Can i really love and accept myself for who and where I
am? What must I believe about myself for that to be true? That I am whole. That I am worthy. That I am loved despite my shortcomings. That I have an opportunity to learn and grow. And that the challenges I experience help me to connect with others and give me an understanding that I can share.</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ Board games are awesome. My favorites currently are Apples to Apples, Quelf, and Dominion.</span><br />
+ It's amazing how our eyes and hands can coordinate.<br />
+ 12/2 The strangest thing happened today. A guy who randomly saw me at the farmer's market gifted me a delicious apple. Only in Austin.Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-4273369665879360402012-11-18T21:25:00.002-06:002012-11-18T21:25:56.785-06:00Day LogHad a really beautiful evening connecting with Shin, country dancing with Japanese teachers, and meeting Kody from Brady and the bus driver that looks like Nate Marquardt. Really needed a day like this. It's been a rough few days battling some negative self talk. Dao, let's come from loving kindness and remember to count your blessings. You're doing just fine :)Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-63721080094434082712012-11-01T16:38:00.003-05:002012-11-01T16:38:41.697-05:00- today i am excited about sharing my acro knowledge through a collaborative website, starting the month of november, and creating more intimacy in my life with new and old friends.<br />- went on date with my self. We bike stop for doughnuts swing park grocery lots of foods shopping exploring Austin. A pretty girl would be nice too.<br />- nice connect with shin. It's nice to experience empathy. Makes it easier to give it to others<br />
- <span class="gc-message-sms-text">gratitude is the antidote to fear</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">- I find </span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">power in appreciating and complimenting others</span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">I love food carts downtown and along
lamar and congress. pretty much everywhere I've visited. I would buy meatballs from some lady with a good recipe at the park. There's some good grub out there. </span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"> met a really cute couple at east side yoga. seemed to really love one another, giving each other massages. I want that.</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">go get it. go get some</span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"> Interesting how the skies can change in ten minutes and so dramatically</span> </span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">Wonder if i can see the moon during the day more often. Wonder how many more things I could see if I were more observant</span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-from"> </span>
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">Why do gray clouds usually lay under white ones</span> </span> </span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">saw a girl walk out what i think was the men's room. I've used the women's room before out of desperation but have never seen a woman use the mens room. Was a bit out of the ordinarily . Turns out it was an effeminate guy</span>.</span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">got caught in the cold without a coat so I borrowed a jacket from the lost and found</span> </span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">don't regret the past. Don't
complain the present. and don't fear the future. You never fear pains
that have already happened. you just worry about future ones.</span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">saw an acquaintance who appeared to be living at the homeless shelter. Makes things more personal. Grateful to have a roof over my head.</span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- </span></span></span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">loving the Halloween costumes! and getting a One hour haircut. I know. I didn't think it was possible.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">- I saw my mom's friend drive by. I wonder if anyone's seen me on my bike. </span> </span></span></span></span> </span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-15812241228425148792012-10-05T17:22:00.001-05:002012-10-05T17:22:50.451-05:00Today's Journal+ I love it when I get over the recovery period of a tough day before. On the upswing of life and learning to enjoy the ride ☼Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-6290518442691836242012-10-01T21:32:00.002-05:002012-10-02T12:20:23.859-05:00Today's Journal+ she got her shoelace caught in the bike chain and I got to get it unstuck for her. Vicki is a student from the Blind School.♥ I also got to talk to Hilly about possibly teaching the kids acro. <br />
+ she and matt used to date. how precious. I don't know why I'm so drawn to this project but i want to make it happen! Acrovision Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-89869852990476809392012-09-23T23:50:00.000-05:002012-09-23T23:50:28.637-05:00Daily Journal+ I am grateful for <span class="gc-message-sms-text">capitalism and freedom of time</span><br />
+ <span class="gc-message-sms-text">made it to 800 post on alongthedao. eating at the dorm reminds me of high school where the popular kids sit together and the nerds, etc. except there's a clique I've recently been introduced to: laughing korean sorority sisters. that's a strange one</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">made way too many friends today. Sometimes it's nice to be incognito</span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">successful people face up to fears and create plan to overcome</span></span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span></span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">Awesome day. biked home tonight high in more ways than one and stopped by a barbecue pit but turned out they were closed.</span> </span> </span> </span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-85068661597872644032012-09-19T22:21:00.000-05:002012-09-19T22:21:43.250-05:00Daily Journal+ taught Grant some bike maintenance.<br />
+ tough day. we'll try again. sleep at home BUT have some fear to wake to. If I don't get up It will be even worse if I stay in bed. Plus baby Brianne whose parents can't be there for her needs us and so does Monica. We need to stay strongDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-85109778449007303622012-09-15T23:14:00.000-05:002012-09-15T23:14:29.719-05:00Daily Journal+ taught acro to two cousins, not my cousins, just kids who were cousins. Then I taught a brother and his little sister. Really made my day. Kids remind you to be joyful.<br />
+ hung out at central market today and saw a black man with a white woman. If you know central market you realize that it's predominantly white. I understood how he must have felt because I went to a supermarket in a hobumkin town in Mississippi with Monica and felt a lot of eyes on me (probably of my own fabrication) so I made a point to make out with her so everyone could see we were together. That was a fun day. <br />
+ a girl spilt some water so I offered her a towel. I think she thought I was hitting on her but really I just wanted her to leave so that I could whitebox her leftovers.<br />
+ <span class="gc-message-sms-text">learned high ninjastar . Bounce juggling. Flew kids who were brothers at the jam. Can't pinpoint what it is but their family is a bit strange, likely homeschooled or fundamentalist of some kind. They sure love their acro tho! We do attract a bunch of weirdos, me included ;p</span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-5864671412568661062012-09-13T23:31:00.000-05:002012-09-13T23:31:33.866-05:00Daily Journal+ ordered wondermats<br />
+ juggled some four ball<br />
+ displayed some love towards Bill<br />
+ acro flew a sikDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-2134593773634536332012-09-12T00:35:00.001-05:002012-09-12T00:35:08.994-05:00Daily Journal+ spoke with Gianna and Noah, possibly great conversationDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-10406830126543263452012-09-09T22:54:00.000-05:002012-09-09T22:54:22.922-05:00Daily Journal+ juggled in a laundry mat<br />
+ took naps in public<br />
+ met up with my new juggling friend Steve<br />
+ had a heart to heart with Monica.Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-38131634697550732972012-09-08T23:08:00.000-05:002012-09-08T23:08:11.933-05:00Daily Journal+ updated acro skills, meal plan<br />
+ board games at Ashlyn's. fun.Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-87722015757972861682012-09-06T23:27:00.000-05:002012-09-06T23:27:48.312-05:00Daily Journal+ saw shin nagao boxing again, inspiring!<br />
+ connected with steve at juggling<br />
+ flew some really rad stuff with Noah learned high ninja star, pop goes the weasel<br />
+ juggled some fun stuff with EllieDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-70100027980475616242012-09-05T23:23:00.000-05:002012-09-05T23:23:37.030-05:00Daily Journal<span class="gc-message-sms-text"> + thank god for books and the bachelor</span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-33254636247318056392012-09-05T10:55:00.002-05:002012-09-05T10:55:50.241-05:00One Upon a Time<iframe width="480" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/FPLId4hAE0o?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-60384210470856375492012-09-02T22:26:00.006-05:002012-09-05T22:32:48.602-05:00Daily Journal<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ taught daughter and dad acro. Zoey and Clint. The little girl was so joyful it was wonderful to watch.</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"> Helped bill with mats. Taught bigger girls acro</span> </span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-77176147947119266622012-09-01T00:48:00.000-05:002012-09-01T00:48:28.880-05:00Daily Journal+ back to painting<br />
+ mom talk half an hour<br />
+ moonlight clouds look spectacular tonight on the bike ride home from the jam.Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-55551370118456734772012-08-31T08:16:00.001-05:002012-09-05T22:32:41.632-05:00Daily Journal+ I've been given advice to count my blessings each and every day, and in every moment: I have so much free time, freedom to choose to do whatever I want with my time. I will try to paint today?<br />
+ <span class="gc-message-sms-text">experienced the bus ride to UT tonight in a state gratitude. life when filtered through this lens is quite grand. how to cultivate this state as much as possible</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ asked the desk clerk at the library why he's so happy today, he replied, "well, I have a job and don't have too many things to worry about and it can always be worse."</span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"> gratitude freedom</span></span><br />
<span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text">+ </span></span><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"><span class="gc-message-sms-text"> lemon to lemonade pain to painting</span> </span> </span>Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-57488260946569768622012-08-29T22:55:00.000-05:002012-08-29T22:55:57.744-05:00Daily Journal+ interesting massage with a happy indian<br />
+ got std tested today. interesting conversation with another girl there<br />
+ got an awesome 4 hand massage from Ayo and GrantDaguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-62402880706288112842012-08-28T23:44:00.000-05:002012-08-28T23:44:15.704-05:00Daily Journal+ juggled at Rec Center with Moni<br />
+ the clouds looked beautiful this evening<br />
+ looking forward to getting paid to teach acro to Nash and his kids<br />
+ yay! discovered free http://www.cartoonize.net/Daguyverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12159850673141240442noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2389439684866385776.post-55529556924146853572012-08-27T23:46:00.001-05:002012-08-28T09:22:29.706-05:00Daily Journal+ Met up with moni at Barton Springs this morning. Funny how I've taken for granted this natural pool.<br />
+ Feeling a bit off with the early morning wakeup. Need to do that a little more gradually?<br />
+ Grant stopped by. He's unusual for sure. <br />
+ Swam 4 laps at Barton pool! Yea! (the short width) <br />
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